Sex is the Foundation of Relationships: A Truth You Can’t Ignore

Men rarely talk about it openly, but sex is the foundation on which relationships stand. We can hide behind high words like love, spiritual connection, or shared goals, but in the end, it all comes down to a basic question: do we match?

Men rarely talk about it openly, but sex is the foundation on which relationships stand. We can hide behind high words like love, spiritual connection, or shared goals, but in the end, it all comes down to a basic question: do we match?

And it's not just about technique or temperament. Problems start when a couple ignores this aspect even before marriage. They convince themselves that "we have fun together" or "we both want children" are enough reasons to build a family. But sooner or later, awkward questions arise: why have our desires faded? Why does even an attempt to get close feel frustrating instead of joyful?

At worst, one partner starts looking for passion elsewhere. At best, painful honesty sets in: "we love each other, but like siblings." And this is not uncommon. You feel respect, gratitude, even admiration for the person, but there’s no desire.

What to do?

Looking for Alignment on the Core Level

Spiritual closeness and shared interests are important, but they can’t replace sexual harmony. If there’s no passion in the relationship, even the most heartwarming evenings watching your favorite movies won’t save it. After a few failed attempts, you’ll find yourself watching her “Return My Love” with annoyance, and she’ll be watching your favorite soccer game in the same way.

Sex is not just about physiology. It’s about how a couple feels each other, whether they align on a deeper level. When that alignment exists, little things like different tastes or preferences fade into the background.

Why Readiness Matters to Meet "The One"

To meet your ideal partner, you first need to understand yourself. Until you know what you truly want, every new romance will feel like a test, filled with disappointment, hurt, and new insecurities.

Your "right" person is someone who matches you not only emotionally but also sensually. Someone with whom everything feels natural: from their scent to their temperament. And there will be no "well, she cooks well" or "he’s nice".

How to Find Harmony

1. Understand your needs. Figure out what matters to you in a relationship, including intimacy.
2. Be honest. Ignoring obvious mismatches is like planting a ticking time bomb.
3. Don’t expect compromises. If you think passion can be replaced by comfort or stability, remember that true happiness in a relationship is built on complete harmony, not on “buts.”

Love isn’t just about high ideals. It’s also about the ability to share passion with someone who is truly close to you. And this closeness becomes the key to long-lasting, happy relationships.