How to Turn Her On: Surprising Facts About What Really Works

Gentlemen, let’s face a fact: all those romantic gestures and endless serenades might sound nice, but they don’t always have the effect you expect. Psychologist Julie Hyman, head of the clinic of sexology and natal medicine, conducted an intriguing experiment that will change how you look at sexual arousal in women.

Gentlemen, let’s face a fact: all those romantic gestures and endless serenades might sound nice, but they don’t always have the effect you expect. Psychologist Julie Hyman, head of the clinic of sexology and natal medicine, conducted an intriguing experiment that will change how you look at sexual arousal in women.

Julie gathered a group of women, gave them devices resembling tampons, and asked them to listen to two types of audio recordings: romantic and erotic. The goal was simple — to measure how blood flow in their genital areas changed in response to different stimuli. The results were surprising: women, like men, are more aroused by direct discussions about sex than sweet words about love.

Perhaps that’s why women in public transport, when sitting, tend to elegantly cross their legs, showcasing their elegance and hidden sexuality. After all, you don’t need to be overly "cheeky" or too obvious for female sexuality to be noticeable. These little, yet bold gestures can provoke a much stronger reaction than you might think.

So, if you want to get a woman's attention, forget about excessive romance. Be straightforward, confident, and don’t be afraid to talk openly about what really interests you. Conversations about sex or at least acknowledging that you know how to treat her, can turn her on much more than beautiful love poems.

So, gentlemen, relax and accept this as a fact — to get a woman interested, you don’t always have to be "modest" and "romantic." Being genuine and honest is far more important.