Freedom begins with the mind: how not to become a slave to your own permissiveness

When we talk about freedom, most of us imagine a carefree life with no restrictions — the ability to do and say whatever we want, without thinking of the consequences. But here’s the catch: freedom is not just the absence of limits; it’s a conscious choice that comes with the ability to take responsibility for our actions.

When we talk about freedom, most of us imagine a carefree life with no restrictions — the ability to do and say whatever we want, without thinking of the consequences. But here’s the catch: freedom is not just the absence of limits; it’s a conscious choice that comes with the ability to take responsibility for our actions.

To be truly free, you first need to become smart. This is the most important lesson hidden behind our desires for independence. When a person doesn't understand what freedom really is, they risk falling into the trap of permissiveness. They might believe that freedom means having no boundaries, but in reality, they become enslaved by their own weaknesses and habits. It’s like being handed the keys to an expensive car, but not knowing how to drive. At first, it’s exciting, but soon it turns into chaos.

True freedom is not about escaping responsibility, but embracing it with full awareness. Enslaved people, those who are subjugated, often act under pressure, obeying commands out of fear. A free person can and must take on obligations. Only someone who understands what they’re doing and why can truly control their life.

Here’s the paradox: many, after achieving "permissiveness," are shocked to realize that they’ve simply entered a new form of slavery. Addicts, womanizers, lazy people — they all think their freedom lies in reckless actions. They believe they can do anything they want, but in reality, their actions are controlled by fear, addiction, or just a lack of awareness. What’s more free: strolling around the city without a care, or thinking through each step, knowing that every decision carries responsibility?

Freedom, like any gift, requires attention and control. It doesn’t come by itself; it’s not handed to you. It’s the result of inner work that no one else can do for you. Only by understanding your own strength and your ability to control your life do you become truly free. And then freedom won’t scare you anymore. It becomes the norm, not some abstract concept.

Freedom can’t be taken away or given as a gift. It can only be cultivated within, by developing your mind, your awareness, and your ability to make decisions. And when you do that, you’ll truly be free — not because you can do anything, but because you understand what’s important to you and control your life.