For many, Christmas is “The Big Holiday”: family dinners, endless stories from boring relatives, and the obligatory smile when your aunt serves you a second slice of her homemade pudding. But what if you decide to spend December 25th alone? Scary? Not at all. It could turn out to be the best Christmas of your life.
Why Spending Christmas Alone Isn’t a Punishment
Yes, society tends to label those who skip family gatherings. But let’s be honest: sometimes being alone is a real gift. You can finally stop enduring Brussels sprouts, forget boring conversations, and spend the day entirely on your own terms.
Create Your Own Traditions
When you’re with family, everything follows a schedule: gifts in the morning, turkey at noon, the monarch’s address on TV. When you’re alone, the rules are yours. Want to go to the cinema? Go for it. Treat yourself to a spa day? Absolutely. Psychotherapist Jade Thomas advises: “Identify what makes you feel good—exercise, walks, downtime, cooking, or helping others. Incorporate these activities into your day.”
A Feast… Just for You
Christmas has always been about feasting. But if you’re alone, forget about complicated traditional dinners. Buy yourself a fancy bottle of champagne, indulge in smoked salmon, or order something unusual—Chinese takeaway like in the U.S. or KFC like in Japan. The main rule here is: “culinary freedom for one.”
Self-Care Comes First
Instead of collapsing in front of the TV with a cheap bottle of liqueur, dedicate the day to yourself. Yoga, meditation, journaling, a relaxing bath with Epsom salts—it’s not just a luxury, it’s an investment in your well-being.
Disconnect from Social Media
Scrolling through perfect Christmas family photos on Instagram can dampen your mood. Therapist Ben Jackson advises: “Limit social media, protect your space like your home.” Instead, play a playlist or podcast that lifts your spirits.
Get Dressed and Keep the Day on Track
Even if you won’t see anyone, dress well—sweater, shirt, or even a suit. It’s not just self-discipline; it’s a way to make the day feel special. John Morgan, founder of Venture Smarter, recommends: “Treat the day like a project—plan activities you rarely get to enjoy: a documentary, cooking an elaborate meal, or a personal project.”
Travel or Book a Hotel
If your budget allows, change your environment. Psychologist Daniel Glazer notes: “New places give the day a sense of freshness.” A morning flight on Christmas is nearly empty, prices are lower, and the atmosphere is unusual. If traveling far isn’t possible, book a hotel nearby—no cooking required, but still festive.
Take a Walk Outdoors
Even without snow, December air invigorates. A walk among lights and Christmas decorations lifts your mood and boosts energy. Positive psychologist Casey Paul recommends using fresh air and movement for a natural “happiness boost” thanks to endorphins.
Plan for the Year Ahead
Time spent alone is a chance to prepare for the future. Start writing a book, learn a new skill, plan a holiday. You have complete control over your time—use it wisely.
