We often treat porn like a “sex manual.” But in reality, it’s no different from a Hollywood stunt — like jumping a motorcycle through a ring of fire or sprinting across train rooftops. Impressive? Sure. Practical in real life? Not so much.
Here are nine habits that look “normal” thanks to porn but can actually ruin both the fun and the relationship.
Skipping foreplay
In porn, everything happens in three seconds. In real life, the body needs time. Foreplay isn’t a “formality” — it’s how you warm up, connect, and intensify pleasure.
Forgetting lube
In porn, lube practically doesn’t exist. In real life, dryness leads straight to discomfort and even injury. Lube isn’t “weak” — it’s common sense.
Using spit as lube
Spit evaporates quickly and doesn’t provide real glide. The result? More friction, less fun.
Treating anal sex as mandatory
In porn, it’s almost always the “third act.” In real life, anal sex isn’t a menu requirement — it’s a matter of preference. Some enjoy it, some don’t. Either way is fine.
Switching between vaginal and anal sex without a condom
Looks “hot” on screen. In reality, it’s unhygienic and can lead to infections and health issues.
Ending sex after the man’s orgasm
Porn revolves around the male “finish.” But if there are two (or more) people in bed, it only makes sense that everyone deserves their climax.
Changing positions every two minutes
On camera it looks dynamic. In real life, it’s often awkward, distracting, and turns sex into gymnastics practice.
Ejaculating on the face by default
Yes, some people like it. But semen in the eyes can cause irritation — and if infections are involved, serious problems. That’s something to do only with consent and awareness of the risks.
Not talking during sex
Porn stars “read each other’s minds” — because they’re following a script. In real life, communication is key: it prevents misunderstandings and makes the experience enjoyable for both.
