Men love being heroes, but sometimes we fall into the trap of those who only pretend to care. How can you tell if a girl is playing you and not building a serious relationship? Let’s figure it out.
You sense something odd in her behavior
Intuition is a powerful tool. If something feels off, pay attention. She might say the right things, but her actions or tone suggest otherwise. Trust your gut.
Her words don’t match her actions
Statements like "you’re the one for me" followed by ignoring your calls or messages during crucial moments are a red flag. Genuine feelings are backed by actions.
She’s too focused on herself
If all your communication revolves around her needs and your desires are neglected, she may exhibit narcissistic traits. This shows you’re just a tool to boost her ego.
Flirty online, cold in real life
Emotional warmth in messages can mask coldness in person. If she doesn’t show affection face-to-face, her feelings might not be real.
She avoids serious conversations
After months together, if you know nothing about her plans or future, it’s a sign she’s not looking for something long-term.
You always have to obey her
If she sets the rules and you’re always adjusting, something’s wrong. Relationships should be equal.
She dramatizes every disagreement
When you express your feelings, she either cries or gets angry, making you feel guilty. This is a tactic to avoid responsibility.
